So another perk, about working with the spouse. He can go to conferences and take the one laptop that controls all the printing functions. You want a receipt? NO. How about an invoice? NO. Maybe I can print you a statement? Absolutely NOT.
Note that not being able to print customer receipts means that I have to produce handwritten receipts for those who demand a receipt for a yellow craft fluff that costs all of 39 cents. This also means that for a brief, yet intensely painful few seconds, my hands will have to come out of my pockets. Imagine being in a meat locker warmly bundled in a minus 30 degree sleeping bag. Now imagine having to leap naked out of the aforementioned sleeping bag and prance about naked around the meat locker. Brings new meaning to Frosty the Snowman, doesn't it?
So now the anger originally directed at my husband for taking the wrong computer has turned its hateful gaze up Customer Craft Fluff. Now, I am ENRAGED because this obviously insane person is risking the circulation in my fingers for a craft fluff. A cotton ball in pale yellow for those unfamiliar with fluffs.
"You really need a receipt for that?" I remark caustically and point with my elbow (remember, my hands are in my pockets.
"Of course I do. I need to get reimbursed." For a 39 cent fluff? Who needs reimbursement for a fluff? If I could remove my hands and summon up the strength, I would wrestle her to the ground and hang her from the ceiling with crepe paper streamers (the warehouse is chock full of arts and crafts bits), but for now I must swallow the rage and write out a receipt, hands shivering from the cold, all for the good of the "Family Business."
Needless to say, if you notice the type going out of whack, it is merely the frostbite setting in.
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Working with Your Spouse -- Choose Your Path Carefully, My Friend
You have a great job. A fabulous kid. A house. A husband. And most importantly, a life outside of the "Family Business" (Note: names have been changed to protect the identity of the individuals). Now, as I sit here, nearly frozen to my chair wondering if I will end up like one of those Mount Everest mountaineers, perfectly preserved and left to remain on the mountain for all of eternity with the occasional climber haplessly stumbling upon me left to ponder, "I wonder what happened to her?", I am forced to question my own sanity. Why, why did I choose this path in life?
The whole premise of it seemed like a win-win situation. With one child in day care and another on the way, I'd be able to spend more time with the kids. Be more flexible in my schedule when one got sick and not have to scramble for a last minute babysitter. I'd get to spend more time with my husband. It would be great. It would be paradise.
Now that I think it about it, in reality this whole thing is paradise lost.
People turn to me all the time, "Gee," they really say 'gee'. "You are married to the nicest guy in the world." And truth be told, he really is. There is no one else I could be imagine myself married. But should I or any one for that matter spend 24 hours a day with their spouse? I digress.
We'll start with The Warehouse. It is big, scary, freezing in the winter, malaria hot in the summer and only reaches a livable temperature for about a day and half every year. As I type this, I am wearing about sixty layers, a hat, parka and thinking of learning about seal or whale hunting from an Eskimo because I know that I read somewhere that blubber in some way, helps keep you from freezing to death.
This is not nearly the half of it. The office is set in the furthermost, light less corner of this cavernous expanse. With no windows, we are force to rely on the migraine, depression-inducing light thrown from fluorescent bulbs. You don't want to try on clothes in a dressing room with these lights. Why would you want to sit all day in it?
My next thought is bringing in heat lamps. Right now, I envy those reptiles basking on a hunk of dried wood in a tiny aquarium. Please, fence me in under a heat lamp!
We have a water cooler. It has spouts for both hot and cold water. Close to hypothermia several months ago, I went to make hot chocolate. No hot water. When asked why, the husband/dictator (which is what your spouse will turn into when you become his "underling"), I was met with the reply that it would drive up the electric bill.
Don't we have an oil burner? Why yes, we do. Doesn't it work? Well, it sounds like it works. For all the catastrophic, "it is going to blow" noises it makes, I don't think I've ever felt a degree warmer because of it.
I have to go outside and lay in a patch of sun to get some warmth back into my extremities. I will be back...
The whole premise of it seemed like a win-win situation. With one child in day care and another on the way, I'd be able to spend more time with the kids. Be more flexible in my schedule when one got sick and not have to scramble for a last minute babysitter. I'd get to spend more time with my husband. It would be great. It would be paradise.
Now that I think it about it, in reality this whole thing is paradise lost.
People turn to me all the time, "Gee," they really say 'gee'. "You are married to the nicest guy in the world." And truth be told, he really is. There is no one else I could be imagine myself married. But should I or any one for that matter spend 24 hours a day with their spouse? I digress.
We'll start with The Warehouse. It is big, scary, freezing in the winter, malaria hot in the summer and only reaches a livable temperature for about a day and half every year. As I type this, I am wearing about sixty layers, a hat, parka and thinking of learning about seal or whale hunting from an Eskimo because I know that I read somewhere that blubber in some way, helps keep you from freezing to death.
This is not nearly the half of it. The office is set in the furthermost, light less corner of this cavernous expanse. With no windows, we are force to rely on the migraine, depression-inducing light thrown from fluorescent bulbs. You don't want to try on clothes in a dressing room with these lights. Why would you want to sit all day in it?
My next thought is bringing in heat lamps. Right now, I envy those reptiles basking on a hunk of dried wood in a tiny aquarium. Please, fence me in under a heat lamp!
We have a water cooler. It has spouts for both hot and cold water. Close to hypothermia several months ago, I went to make hot chocolate. No hot water. When asked why, the husband/dictator (which is what your spouse will turn into when you become his "underling"), I was met with the reply that it would drive up the electric bill.
Don't we have an oil burner? Why yes, we do. Doesn't it work? Well, it sounds like it works. For all the catastrophic, "it is going to blow" noises it makes, I don't think I've ever felt a degree warmer because of it.
I have to go outside and lay in a patch of sun to get some warmth back into my extremities. I will be back...
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